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For starters, baseball is the ultimate social sport, thus helping me to “make friends with everyone.” When you watch a game either at home or at a stadium it’s expected that regular conversation will take place throughout the game. Although there will be moments of high excitement during a home run, a stolen base, a double-play, etc. most of the game is fairly laid back. You don’t ever hear someone say, “shush, I’m watching the game.” Even the most intense fans will watch the sport with a friend and will make plenty of comments throughout. And watching a game with those friends really does strengthen relationships. I have so many fond memories of going to Padres games with my friends, my spouse, my kids, and especially with my mom who loves the Padres as much as I do.
Finally, baseball is a great way to practice “when things go bad have a little cry and start new the next day.” In major league baseball most teams win about 50% of their games. The worst teams win more like 40% and the best teams will get in the 60% range, but basically every team every game as an equal chance of winning as the other team. So even when you have a home team that isn’t so great (which unfortunately happens to us Padres fans more often than we like) there is always the chance that on any particular day your team will win. A team might lose by 12 runs on a Tuesday and by Wednesday produce a shutout victory. It’s the ultimate lesson in hope! Baseball also does a lot of trading in between seasons so that every year fans may say, “well, our team might actually be decent this year.”
For me there is comfort in knowing that every year the season starts again and that every day, when I watch a game, there is a hope that joy will come from a win. So even when I feel exhausted and broke, even when my job is hard and my kids are driving me crazy, I have knowledge that somehow everything will be ok because it’s baseball season again.
Your statement about how watching a game with friends really does strengthen relationships really hit me. My Grandma was a huge Padres fan. She took us to the games and packed us awesome hot dog lunches and even splurged on treats at the park too. I can still see her siting in her living room or outside in her backyard listening to the game on the radio. But you're right, she was never so intently focused on the game that she couldn't talk or play with us. To this day, I can't see a baseball game without thinking of her. :)
ReplyDeleteOne of the reasons I love baseball is definitely the social aspect like you mentioned. I am so blessed that you share that same love; after all it's a female thing on our side of the family, even if our spouses don't love it the way we do! The reason I never took up golf seriously was when I played I was told that "one does not talk during the actual playing of the game." Where's the fun in that???
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